Validation Not Required

The world is going to be full of people. People who love you, people who don't. How they feel about me is none of my business and truly I don't care. It took me 38 years to truly find and love myself. I don't have time to worry about who does or doesn't. I am too busy enjoying my life, my family and paying forward and helping others. Some will love you with all they have from the top of the mountain tops screaming it while others love quietly. Some will hate you quietly while others will be passive aggressive, with a big shit stirring spoon or very hateful. That is their issue. How they run their life and deal with their emotions are their deal. One of my coaches said I reminded her of this quote "the women who doesn't require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet" What an honor , huh? That is exactly how I feel - Love me or hate me I am who I am. Validation not required.